The optimist, it's been said, sees the doughnut where the pessimist sees only the hole.
Psychologists are nearly unanimous in recommending that you keep your eye on the doughnut.
But now two researchers are suggesting that for some people, a little pessimism may be a good thing. According to Julie K. Norem and psychologist Nancy Cantor, these people are able to use "defensive pessimism" to prevent the prospect of failure from immobilizing them...
The researchers conclude that when well-intentioned people reassure pessimists that everything will be fine, they may not be doing them a favor. Defensive pessimists may need to play their little cognitive trick on themselves in order to do well. The best way for them to get the doughnut may be to prepare for the possibility of getting only the hole.
Carol Wade, "The power of negative thinking,"
Psychology Today, May 1987
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